Yes it’s amazing really because I have seen the transition happen too, there has been a consistent happiness and harmlessness for both of us like never before in the past. So much so that it takes less and less vigilance to keep it going, in fact virtually no vigilance needed at this point - it just happens.
It was funny when your friends asked the other day what we are like when we argue, and we had to answer (sincerely) that we can’t really say as we don’t really argue at all 