Romantic Love is a fantasy construct

[syd]

Hi Vineeto,

@Vineeto

But this is not the end of story for an actualist style investigation – to start with, in actualism you acknowledge that you are the only person you can change, and if your contemplation don’t yet reveal where and how you need to change, what lies underneath this present attitude and outcome of situations like this, then you need to dig deeper in your understanding.

Before I respond to the bulk of your post, I wanted to ask if you’ve read Just feel good, bro - #3 by syd (I actually go into my core fears here) ?

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Thank you for the “change in your ‘being’” explanation; I hadn’t seen that way. This is something to keep in mind, certainly.

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Regarding your reiteration of Kuba’s posts, what I’ve always found odd is that nobody has so far given a detailed report of this ‘desire’ and the various forms it takes.