Personally, I think I will need to do a “Peter” on this one, as there is a lot to unpack in the 3 words which have so far rung a bell;
Commitment
Love
Expectations
There’s also the accumulated distress of having failed/been failed in previous relationships.
Can I drop it all? Maybe.
I am determined to use the opportunity to pull back the rug and examine everything I have been sweeping under it for decades.