Adding to this, I can see that the emotion is an element of ally-enemy dynamics: because ‘I’ have set it up that Hera winning = feeling good and Hera losing = feeling bad, for Mr.Yo to win would mean feeling bad, which inherently makes him my enemy, ‘I’ have to wish for his defeat to ‘get to’ feel good. Not seeing Mr.Yo as my enemy broke the entire thing and reminded me that feeling good is actually in my own hands… the feeling good became unconditional… at that point enjoying & appreciation is peace & peacefulness… I am no longer ‘against’ anyone, which is harmonious as well.
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