And you can take this further and contemplate on the ultimate benefit of becoming actually free with regards to your partner.
Which is the possibility of her actual happiness and harmlessness (as long as there is ‘being’ there will be suffering).
So instead of pacifying the sorrowful and malicious entity (the one actually causing all the harm) which is parasitically inhabiting it’s host body, there is a possibility for the actual flesh and blood body that is your partner, to be free.
It is easy to downplay the effect that becoming actually free can have on the rest of human kind. But let’s propose a world where ‘Richard’ and ‘Vineeto’ never proceeded towards self-immolation, then it quickly becomes clear just how important it is. No less than actual peace on earth, and no less than human beings living life in full meaning, each moment again.