I was a newbie when I came to slack about 3 years ago and its been such a big part of whatever success I have had.
I remember many years ago when I was just interested in actualism I was on the yahoo forums and back then the general understanding and application of the method was poor.
Comparing back then to now there is a huge difference. There is so many key things that have clicked from my participation here and also just the act of posting has kept me in the loop and committed.
Even comparing what is going on now vs my early days on slack things have changed a lot for the better.
The other thing which I was talking to @Sonyaxx about the other night is that it is easy to forget just how low the ‘normal’ baseline is and how significant whatever successes we have along the way are.
Sonya mentioned herself that looking back she is nothing like the other girls she talks to, there is all these things that have simply disappeared, and I see this in her for sure. She is simply not the same person I met a couple of years ago.
Sure maybe we aren’t all living in virtual freedom and having PCEs daily but all it takes is to look back at one’s life a few years ago to see how much has changed, I always surprise myself whenever I do this, even looking a couple months back always demonstrates that there are certain ‘chunks’ missing and that my life is cleaner and purer and more happy.
I know what I live now is already beyond what a normal person lives. I do not argue with my partner, I do not get in moods, I do not go round being miserable and malicious, I live my life in a way that is quite sensible and successful day in day out, stress is markedly diminished, there is fun, delight and more.
Do I not have enough experience to assist in another person finding something similar for themselves? I know I do because my mum who has been dabbling in things purely through conversations with me reports big changes and they are verifiable every time I interact with her.
Of course there might be some inclination to ‘show off’ to a newbie as a way of confirming things for myself but that’s fine too haha, I won’t know I’m doing it unless I catch myself doing it.
I think whether newbies stick around or not is so much more to do with their own intent than the quality of discussion here. Most people who spoke to Richard ran for the hills lol. I think as it stands right now it takes a pretty unusual person to stick with Actualism long term, the goal is to find those people (ones like ourselves) and give them the best assistance we can.