One thing that has become clear is that whatever feeling-being problem arises, the solution is always: pure intent!
The answer that actually works is always the same: pure intent will ensure the best resolution, by actually solving the emotional issue and also allowing the best outcome that could happen to eventuate.
I observed a resistance to just accepting this. A sort of real-world sophisticate’s response like “ah it can’t be that simple, you have to consider all the angles, this and that and the other” of overcomplicating. In other words, I saw that to accept that simple thing would be to leave ‘humanity’ even further behind, and I felt the pull back towards humanity as a resistance to just doing that.
I just have to accept that ‘humanity’ would not accept this, would mock or ridicule or call it simplistic etc. But far be it from a blind faith in a God or a new-age aphorism, it is actually grounded in fact, scientific, even. After one hundred (or however many) instances of having a problem and pure intent solving it, and it working one hundred times, it’s a one hundred percent success rate. It is thus sensible to extrapolate that in any possible future situation, although I don’t know the specifics of it now, the best outcome will eventuate by following pure intent, by allowing it.
So by fully endorsing it there is one less resistance to going all the way 
Another thought today came up regarding how can a rotten-to-the-core thing such as me the feeling-being, have something so good happen to them as to attain one’s destiny. A lifetime of perennial enjoyment and appreciation, seems an unjust reward for something so rotten.
And then I saw that it is not for ‘me’ the feeling-being that this reward will happen, it is for this actual flesh and blood body. So that which reaps the reward will be the flesh and blood body, not ‘me’. What ‘I’ do get (which is what ‘I’ want) is to no longer have any burden, to cease being malicious and sorrowful, via no longer existing, abdicating the throne. So ‘I’ get what ‘I’ want also but ‘I’ get it by sacrificing ‘myself’ which is something that is very fit to do for a rotten-to-the-core feeling-being.
In other words it all works out for the best for all involved 