Been expecting some ‘hauling over the coals’ by Richard for quite some time now for speaking my mind 
I do think there are some problematic dynamics at play here, which need to be sifted through and spoken about - and I don’t mean just about my extant social identity. But I’m going to sit on it for a while and see what emerges.
I’ve also been wondering for a while now (and I know I’m not alone here) if this forum is a suitable vehicle to facilitate actual freedom - rather than actively prevent it, much as we would like to believe otherwise. It is good for learning the ropes and getting the hang of the actualism method I think. Probably good for actualists to have a community of like minded individuals too. But the tail shouldn’t wag the dog. Perhaps there could be more efficient supplementary or wholly alternative models - small groups working more intensively perhaps? I guess other alternatives are equally unproven, but still worth thinking about.