What a curious article - I would never have expected a new article like this. Anyone know what prompted it exactly?
I say curious because it’s interesting to read deeper into Richard’s opinions on things - opinions which to Richard I guess are hard facts. Obviously for feeling beings, or maybe even basically actually free people, it’s hard to evaluate the information altogether accurately without wondering if this evaluative perspective and intellectual perspicacity is something only full actual freedom can provide. For example, one thing I remember during a PCE is they way that I thought and wrote was way different. It’s astounding to realise that even when I write, there is identity at play - which literally affects the use of vocabulary, grammar and so on. Intelligence definitely increases during a PCE.
I know personally, I more easily dismiss or question my own opinion/reaction on Richard’s comments, because of his authority in the area of actual freedom. And that’s not just an “area”….that’s something entirely fundamental. So yeah, he does somewhat have us over a barrel on that one .
He includes “homosexuals” (along with transvestites lol) in his talk of “sexual orientation identities” and even though I live what he would think of as “a homosexual lifestyle”, he isn’t totally clear in his article about his views on whether sexual orientation itself is identity based. As far as I’m aware he does see homosexuality, for example, as being socially cultivated/fabricated. We’ve had conversations on that very matter, but it’s obviously not something I have in writing or which was made public - so I don’t necessarily want to dive into that. But with R&V’s permission I would make some account of those chats. This updated stance, if Richard wishes to confirm it, is at odds with what he has previously written:
RICHARD: No, sexual orientation is not a preference.
RESPONDENT: Your input on this matter is important to me as I am facing issues around my sexual (homosexual) identity/reality since AF.
RICHARD: Neither heterosexuality or homosexuality (or bisexuality/ transsexuality for that matter) are a product of identity as other animals display variations in sexual orientation as well …
His current stance seems to step away from that biological viewpoint, putting all the focus on identity now (outside of heterosexual sexual preference, that is). Would be neat for him to clarify what exactly he sees as the behaviour of a “sexual orientation identity”. In the case of homosexuality - does he mean thinking of oneself privately, and publicly presenting oneself, as gay? Or does he mean literally courting those of the same sex - including men loving men, men having sex with other men and so on. And to what extent is that ‘bad’ - for example if a male sucks off another male? Is that a waste because it ideally ‘should have’ been between a man and a woman? On the level of the material/sensual world - how is it not the same? A blowjob isn’t a procreative act - and in any case most heterosexual sex (be it vaginal or anal) is not procreative either. If not procreating is considered a detriment to the human race (an “evolutionary dead end”), what about those who have not reproduced (like Vineeto)?
I’m open to the fact that there are aspects of social conditioning to my being gay - which perhaps even go to the root of my sexuality itself. Richard’s article motivates me to look at every aspect of my identity as close as can be - including sex drive, sexual identity, sexual impulses sexual predilections, acculturated sexual viewpoints etc. Let’s not forget we’re trying to eliminate the entire affective faculty here, so of course those things would be a (beneficial) casualty. So rather than getting caught up in the discourse element of this article (eg spending time trying to figure out who is right about climate change), for me it points to the fact that I need to question everything I think, feel and believe as an identity and leave no stone unturned in the process.
One question as well that I’d ask Richard when reading this article: He makes example of someone on here being a poker player (in a diminishing way, as if that alone said enough, or as if that in itself were indicative of that person’s character) and then further clarifies that means that for that person bluffing is ‘second nature’. I know Richard is responding to that persons initial “disparagements”, but would he agree that his response is also disparaging to a degree? And if yes, is that an example of defending against “bully boys”/not being a pacifist as he has talked about elsewhere?