Yes that makes sense, thank you. It just goes to show how much vibes rule these kinds of interactions, there isn’t a deeper understanding of the source of the feelings when we just get a vibe. Soooo much projection.
I’m also putting together how much of a ruckus these identity dynamics between men and women cause, everyone experiences sexual desire but then we’re supposed to reach certain ideals which don’t match the feelings happening. Then people are constantly treading on eachother’s toes (as in unwanted attention) and suppressing their own desires (to avoid rejection, as well as to avoid being ‘bad’ or a ‘slut’).
And all of this game-playing is only because I’m not enjoying my day-to-day life highly enough…