Humm well just at a high level… do you see how you are in a sense currently ‘anchored’ at a point where what actually free, fully meaning-of-life-free Vineeto writes, you are disagreeing with, and finding what she does “weird”, while at the same time you are finding yourself in defense of and agreeing with the allegedly newly-free Milito, discounting any “weirdness” from his part, when he has already had various warning signs, his hasty departure from the forum being just the latest?
Isn’t it interesting at least? Which is more likely to be the correct direction for you to continue in? And whence the “pull” away from the direction towards Vineeto and instead into the direction towards Milito? What is the nature of this “pull”? If Milito were aligned towards the same direction as Vineeto is, would there be this (psychic) tension that is palpably happening?
I fail to see how it’s “Chinese whispers” (“a game in which a message is distorted by being passed around in a whisper.”). Vineeto read what you wrote, in full, and responded to it, which response she posted, in full, on the AFT site, and which I reproduced here for ease-of-access, in full.
You didn’t provide the link or full reference to which quote you were referring to, so there was no detail for Vineeto to have “missed”. She cannot read your mind, actual freedom does not grant this supernatural power 
. And what she posted was relevant anyway.
Does reading the quote Vineeto posted shed some light on the quote you were referring to, or help you see what Richard was getting at?
Alas despite Milito heavily praising this forum, and even explicitly highlighting the value and incisiveness of my critical posts in particular, stating that all this engagement fosters accountability and integrity… he left the forum, thus meaning there can be no further clarifying or understanding of context or nuances or what he wrote here. Thus he evades any further scrutiny… and leaves his personal contact info so people can talk to him without any “accountability and integrity” for what he says!
I’ll just repeat what I wrote before: I urge people to keep in mind what I’ve written here if and when they communicate with or come into contact with Milito!
Cheers,
Claudiu