Kuba: It’s fascinating that all these facts of life are ‘baked into’ perfection, as in it could not be any other way. Only an infinite and eternal universe can be perfect (without compare) and the rest of the above simply flows from this. If ‘I’ was to demand the universe to change in line with ‘my’ needs then it would no longer be perfect, it would be a contingent universe, a desperate universe, it would be just like ‘me’.
Hi Kuba,
You are right, one can’t give the universe anthropomorphic qualities, such as caring for me or not, and your ultimate conclusion is spot on. It is brilliant reasoning – if the universe would cater to ‘me’ it would no longer be perfect. And that also beats any interfering/ obliging god by a country-mile. 
This very insight/ observation is the end of any possible resentment.
Cheers Vineeto