Very useful response! And some informative things (in particular I appreciate the ‘happiness’ aspect) to consider as part of my “very soon I’ll get there naturally” pace.
Nope, nothing of that sort at all. Your comments have so far been comprehensively helpful (the last two warrants a re-read as well). I also appreciate that your assessment is “based on the words written here” (if anything, a reply is likely to be “off” if it is not based on the words written here). I’ll be happy to report back re: lust when there’s substantial progress.
“Be careful of replying to Dangerous Syd!” 