I’m stoked about it!
Her and I have been hanging out a ton the last month or so, we’ve both been getting over respective exes and talking over a ton of things. She began to be interested in smoking some weed as a way of exploring some emotions, and it had been awhile since I had dabbled so I was game as well.
Yesterday was sunny and hot, and somewhat spur of the moment we decided that rather than going out on the town, we’d try out that weed. We ended up taking edibles.
Her previous experience with weed was that when she was younger she had had some magical times with weed, but as an adult it largely made her anxious. For me I had had numerous PCEs involving edibles or smoking weed, but it hasn’t been a part of my life for a year and not much at all in 2+ years.
We took our edibles and decided to go for a drive. Pretty quickly on the drive I began to feel the effects of the weed and found myself talking quite a lot (common for me with weed), but with a definite edge of anxiety which I was able to keep at a low level.
After awhile we parked at the glacier (yes we have a glacier here that you can park at), hung out and talked for a little while in the car. She eventually said she needed to pee so we went out of the car.
It’s a very touristy area but it was late, so no one else really around. The strange dusk-light that only exists close to midnight in the far north or south in the summer.
When she went into the bushes to pee, it happened for me. I found myself simply where I was, suddenly everything had a solidity and significance which had been missing an instant before. That PCE was maybe only 15 seconds, but it was very noticeable. Throughout the rest of the night, I had a few more blips, some longer than others.
After that point we talked and talked, about religion, about social control, about the role of fear. I mentioned at some point that I had had a PCE, and she said she had one too! I was a bit surprised because we had never talked about PCEs much, and as far as I knew she wasn’t that interested.
It was very funny, I asked her if she was interested in living it as an ongoing experience, and she wasn’t quite wanting to make that commitment but did say “I want to have one again!”
It’s definitely coming from left field for me, as I said she had never expressed much interest and now suddenly she’s had a memorable PCE.
Life is full of surprises!