Investigation

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Cross-posting:

Journal de Henry

Does such an investigation have lasting effects? Or do you have to keep going back and do it? I struggle with similar issues, and for me the need for emotional validation is the main issue. I see two sensible ways to deal with it Balance out my life, focus and develop other interests so that my relationship is not the end-all-be-all of my existence. The feeling-being that craves emotional validation is the root cause. So work on eliminating that.

Journal de Henry

For an investigation to have lasting effects it has to be a genuine, sincere interest to understand an issue. A lot of ‘investigation,’ without pure intent, can become an extra-sneaky way to stay the same. I’ve done it a lot, it feels like being a rat caught in a trap, contorting but ultimately still in the trap. So the first ingredient is always to ensure a strong connection to pure intent / remembering PCE / why you’re doing all this. Is it more important to you to be happy and harmless, or …