Harmlessness

[Andrew]

@Kub933

At the risk of having two conversations going now under two topics,

This is my reply in the other one.

Romantic Love is a fantasy construct

Not sure where to reply, with all the moving of posts… @Kub933 The point of about love and hurt for me is about the specific instance. Lately, I have been realising that a lot of my ‘romantic love’ is motivated by wanting to be rejected. It’s something I hadn’t seen before. Further, I also will reject, eventually, those same people. If that wasn’t my reality, perhaps another ‘hurt’ would be. So, I agree that in general terms malice arises naturally in everyone at some point early on in life…