It’s fortuitous that you posted this as equity has been foremost on my mind since reviewing Richard’s latest writing re: Srinath and then going back and re-reading ‘The Formation and Persistence of Social Identity’
viz:
March 20 2000.
RESPONDENT: You say ‘equity and parity is the key to success’.
RICHARD: Yes, the ‘theory of mind’ signifies both equity and parity to be involuntarily automatic in any social situation. The question is: what is preventing this spontaneous recognition of being fellow human beings from flowing-on into all areas in common?
(…elided…).
RESPONDENT: I don’t know why you say that equity and parity are involuntarily automatic in any social situation.
RICHARD: Concurrent with the recognition of the other creature being a fellow human being comes a tacit ‘of course’ that one treats the other with the same consideration as one treats oneself; it is the implicit acknowledgment of ‘similarity’ (like species knows like species). However, this spontaneous attribution of equity and parity (which is consideration for the needs of both oneself and the other simultaneously) is, as I go on to say further below, hijacked, subverted, sabotaged.
(…elided…).
RESPONDENT: Equity. Parity. Are these just high-minded ideals, political theories divorced from the reality of everyday life in human societies?
RICHARD: Yes and no (and I am not being tricky here) in that yes, they are “just high-minded ideals” when applied as a discipline, a practice, a duty, and no, they are not “divorced from the reality of everyday life” when they come spontaneously, involuntarily, of their own accord. In a word: artlessly.
(…elided…).
RESPONDENT: Naturally, there is a dark side of democratic institutions that is well known…
RICHARD: And here you have put your finger on the nub of the issue: the spontaneity of equity and parity which comes with the recognition of being fellow human beings is hijacked, subverted, sabotaged. And by what?
RESPONDENT: (…). Greed is a factor: I think I am lacking and you have something I want; therefore, I am going to take it from you to acquire it for myself.
RICHARD: Is this greed triggered by a primal (human condition) cause or a proximate (human conditioning) cause?
RESPONDENT: Conditioned fear is another factor. Our lives have sometimes been derailed by violence, you know, children are abused, mistreated, and it perpetuates this wheel of sorrow.
RICHARD: Yes (although sorrow itself has a much deeper cause; but that is another topic). These are contributing factors; what I am looking for is what ‘I’ am doing to hijack, subvert, sabotage this spontaneous equity and parity . What other human beings do is their own business; only unilateral action will do the trick.
(…elided…).
RESPONDENT: Yes, you are quite right. I had not seen that before but it makes sense. To say ‘this is the way it is … human beings are basically greedy …’, to start with an assumption like this rather than leaving the question open and starting with inquiry, as we (sometimes) do here, however imperfectly, is bound to produce a whole system based on false premises. It is an approach designed to produce a particular end. Now, I hear you saying that equity and parity are involuntarily automatic when we recognise others as our fellow human beings.
RICHARD: Yes, if one says that human beings are only ‘basically greedy’ or only ‘basically selfish’ – and there is nothing else – then an investigation is stymied before it gets off the ground (for then it is all over: ‘this is a sorry world’; ‘the universe is a sick joke’; ‘life is a bitch and then you die’, and so on and so on). Then one has no alternative but to construct evermore elaborate coping mechanisms (…).
(…elided…).
RESPONDENT: So, where do equity and parity come into the picture?
RICHARD: Only unilateral action will do the trick.
RESPONDENT: Action as in not of thought? Care to expound?
RICHARD: By ‘unilateral’ I mean that living with equity and parity is something one does entirely on one’s own; it does not depend upon the cooperation of others. What they do is their business (as long as they comply with the legal laws and observe the social protocols, they are left alone to live their lives as wisely or as foolishly as they choose). One does not have to concern oneself about any other person’s modus operandi at all; they can carry on being grotty if that is what turns them on. Therefore, one’s basic starting point is this: how can one live with equity and parity in the world as-it-is with people as-they-are?
(…elided…).
It is the pure intent to live in peace and harmony (equity and parity) irregardless of other’s intentions that fuels the process.
So the critical thing here is that equity and parity are a natural consequence of theory of mind, aka awareness of the other as a conscious individual. However, identity jumps in and creates hierarchies which get in the way of that essential recognition. Additionally, this is something which the social identity by itself (during basic actual freedom) is capable of generating and maintaining, though without the affective backing.
Social conditionings are interesting because they’re maintaining that hierarchy and distance, but they’re trying to conceal them at the same time, which is of course only a tactic to continue. An example would be politeness, where one might be seeing another through a lens of complete scorn, but due to rules of politeness required to ‘be nice’ with their words and action. However, this politeness is only a cover and does not make up for the lack of actually experiencing directly the parity and equity that naturally comes from direct experiencing of the other.
Since reading the above, I’ve been seeing the difference in myself, how ‘my’ normal is to be making little criticisms of others, seeing them as a threat, dismissing them, etc. All different ways of defending ‘my’ place in the world relative to them, in a competitive way. Whereas when I can remove those layers and see them, I can’t help but recognize the ultimate equity that is simply a fact of the matter that I’m alive and they’re alive and we’re all participating in this being alive at the same time. They are no longer a threat and there is no necessity of denigrating them (or, alternatively, building them up as superior).
This is the parity and equity that all the social movements have been aping, but it happens automatically when ‘I’ am out of the way.