So, I was tempted to apologise for this flurry of posts.
I had been tripping, and yet again, psychedelics are so very interesting. I seem to be able to trip in a purely emotional way. That day, I spent 3 hours screaming into a pillow. So full of frustration and rage.
Shame is such a perplexing feeling.
It’s firstly, misconstrued. Embarrassment easily takes over, societal mores flood in an enforce self castigation.
But shame itself isn’t that at all.
Shame seems to me rather to be the emptiness in experiencing one’s fundamental powerlessness. The reaction to one’s helplessness is to feel oneself as worthless. To feel worthless is to fundamentally agree that one is expendable.
The challenge of shame is not in it’s socially acceptable cousins of embarrassment and guilt, which are easily remedied with repentance and apologies, but rather in the absence of any remedy that society prescribes.
There are no social remedies for shame.
To be ‘shame’ is to not socially exist at all; to be broken in such a way as to be such a mirror for the society which produces it will not only turn away, but discard and forget that it ever saw itself reflected in it. It’s beyond embarrassment and guilt. Which one can remedy.
Shame is the manifesting of ‘humanities’ most hienous crimes against the body to such an extent that the ‘self’ in the body subject to those crimes is charged with pretending that such crimes never happened at all.
‘shame’ is pretending that one is uniquely invisible, an abomination without remedy.
Hmm, none of that made much sense.
Edit; no, it sorta did reading it again.