Hi Ed,
This particular example was an unfortunate occurrence and can serve as a warning because as far as I know, this particular respondent has not (yet) changed their mind. When we coined the term it was meant as a jocular nudge for them to come to their senses because when one dares to experience an irresistible pull and follow it through, it will be fatal for ‘me’ and liberating for this particular flesh-and-blood body. There is nothing wrong with being fatally attracted to an actual freedom – everyone who succeeded in becoming actually free was, in fact, fatally attracted.
Also, you may have overlooked what I said afterwards, to “make good use of this “relating to the irresistible pull” – because being vitally interested in becoming actually free from the human condition is a necessary ingredient for success”. Any lukewarm dabbling in actualism will only result in a lukewarm outcome.
Cheers Vineeto