Thank you for this advice Vineeto, indeed the energy of those deliberations was serious and even grim. I read this bit with a smile on my face, what a wonderful question to sincerely and naively ask ‘myself’! It automatically came with a felicitous/innocuous energy fuelling the wondering.
‘I’ do not have an answer to this question yet, and this is exactly correct! ‘I’ locate the answer to ‘be’ undone by it at the same time. Any other answer with ‘me’ still in place is obviously not it.