It doesn’t! 
hence the note at the bottom of the actualism flowchart (Actualism Diagrams Hub - #3 by claudiu)
@Srinath or @geoffrey can better answer this one.
But as I understand it’s essentially about all of ‘me’ fully agreeing to self-immolate. This is all that’s “required”.
The objections to doing so are essentially the same, or have a vast overlap, with the objections to being happy and harmless, to enjoying and appreciating. So removing the objections to the latter help with the former. But there is no pre-requisite of having to have been enjoying and appreciating X amount for Y long, to self-immolating…