Let me take this all down a notch or two. If I may.
Richard has said that he has never written intending his words to be pulled apart in an academic way. So nothing I am saying is accusing him (or you) of lying.
In fact, it’s precisely the opposite. I take it to be an accurate report of how Richard (and you) experience yourselves.
My point was, and is, that if one isn’t experiencing the “choice” as described, not to worry! It’s enough to keep sharing on here, to keep reading, to keep trying in whatever manner works. My opinion that choice doesn’t actually exist, is an academic one. I often would describe things I do as a choice.
The point, and perhaps I was too subtle, is this;
If one can’t choose, that’s ok. Keep going anyway, absorbing the advice here, reading the AFT, otherwise building up the level of available information.
If choice is an actual thing, great! If not, so what?
The point of actualism isn’t to start believing statements about whether choice is a thing, but rather to start doing whatever one can to avail themselves of what is described.
I remember very clearly how in person Richard was perplexed by me continuing to feel bad, when moments before I had felt good. He had no issues with “telling me off”, I can assure you I spent the next twelve hours doing everything I could to live up to that challenge. Somehow, I did manage it.
However, can you see that it is casually linked? Should I tell myself off everyday to somehow recreate that moment?
There is something combative about implying that I am calling Richard a liar. I am not. I regard it as perfectly accurate description of his experience. Indeed, I can often describe my own experience in this way.
" I chose to read carefully and I chose to put it in action."
However, my account would be conforming to a nomenclature.
I don’t experience life like this. I experience is more like “stumbling forward” and somehow discovering something new at my feet, which is all shiny and novel.
I don’t choose for you or Kuba, or Henry of Miguel, or anybody else to post. Neither is it experienced as a choice to read it. I don’t experience it as a choice to action it.
What I can credit to reading more carefully is the embarrassing feeling I had re-reading my journal a few months back.
However, I am glad you are adamant that choice is actually happening. It’s not my intention to change your mind. It was my intention to otherwise “disarm” Rick’s objections.
I know Rick quite well, having spent many hours on the phone. My posts are expressly about how I experience what could be called “choice”.
There are a few points which I could otherwise discuss, but the main thing is that there is no accusations of anyone “lying” in what my opinion is.