This is a logical conclusion that nevertheless isn’t sensible.
Domestic violence, child abuse, suicide, and murder are not clean, pure, flawless, faultless, spotless, blameless, impeccable, unimpeachable, and indicative of paradise.
The actualism method is not to change yourself such that you enjoy these things. I in fact very strongly recommend against going down that path, for what should be obvious reasons!
Just because the actual universe is perfect, flawless, without peer, and intrinsically benevolent, doesn’t mean that, say, a spouse physically abusing their partner is that benevolence in action. In fact it is the opposite, it is a rotten-to-the-core feeling-being maliciously directing the flesh-and-blood-body they are parasitically inhabiting to do senseless and needless harm upon their fellow human being.
Making logical arguments that justify it and turn it into something that is also benevolent, will simply not deliver the goods that you are looking for!
I would focus, rather than on enjoying things like child abuse, suicide, and murder, on enjoying being alive despite things like child abuse, suicide, and murder happening. It is indeed wonderful and remarkable that one can do this despite the fact of such horrible things happening.
Rather than getting yourself to be able to enjoy these types of things, I would focus on being harmless, yourself, such that you don’t contribute, either directly or indirectly/passively, to the continuation of these horrible things – along with the host of things that are not quite so horrible but still negative, like domestic squabbles and disputes and even annoyance and peevishness.
This will then properly set you on the path towards actuality, towards excellence experiences, intimacy experiences, and pure consciousness experiences, from which vantage point you can reflect on these topics further and see if and how your appreciation of these matters changes.
Cheers,
Claudiu