I appreciate your contributions here Srinath. You get to say things that I feel compelled to dance around and hint at.
Your inclusion of “universal compassion” into your out-from-control experience is relevant.
Richard et al’s (relatively recent) turnabout as to the importance and intensity of empathy in the actualism process is also telling. For the longest time, empathy was a four-letter word in actualism. Along with love, compassion, sympathy, humility, etc.
I am beginning to suspect that Richard has bitten the hand that used to feed him. That is, not only did empathy, love, compassion, oneness, humility, beauty, and so on, diminish his malice and sorrow and make him happy and harmless, and not only did it ultimately succeed in getting him to an out-from-control virtual freedom (aka an ongoing excellence experience), but that the out-from-control experience was in fact epitomized by all these things.
That to imitate the actual is to ramp up all these actualist no-no feelings. Indeed, love, forgiveness, compassion, beauty, empathy, are described as being imitations of the actual world. Pale or pathetic or meagre imitations by comparison perhaps, but imitations none the less.
Richard (1999): The essence of success in actualism – the wide and wondrous path to actual freedom – is to fully acknowledge that one is ‘human’ and to imitate the actual as far as is humanly possible.
Mailing List 'AF' Respondent No. 12
So, imitate the actual? Got it …
Richard (1997): The illusion of intimacy that love and compassion produces is but a meagre imitation of the direct experience of the actual.
Richard's Selected Writing on Actual Freedom
Richard (1997): Forgiveness is a meagre imitation of magnanimity, which is one of the many charming characteristics of actual freedom.
Richard's Selected Writing on Actual Freedom
Richard (2000): This is because an imitation innocence was produced by the transformed identity now being humble … it never was and never will be the genuine article.
Mailing List 'C' Respondent No. 4
Richard (2004): The affective intimacy of love – the delusion that separation has ended via a glorious feeling of oneness – is but a pathetic imitation of an actual intimacy.
Mailing List 'AF' Respondent No. 108
Richard (2005): I was to discover that beauty is but a pale imitation of the purity of the actual.
Mailing List 'AF' Respondent No. 106
Richard (2005): ‘He’ (unknowingly) took the pristine purity of the actual, which beauty is but a pathetic imitation of, to be beauty itself.
Mailing List 'AF' Respondent No. 106